The Teachers
One can say, Teach me what you know, but the better request is,Teach me about what teaches you.
- Malidoma Somé
We extend our heartfelt gratitude to our teachers for their commitment to building and nurturing healthy communities. Without our teachers’ passion for community healing and their dedication to honoring the wisdom and teachings of their mentors, ancestors, and the living Earth, we would not be able to offer our own guidance and commitment to community healing.
We deeply honor the teachings of Malidoma Somé, Sobonfu Somé, and the elders of the Dagara tribe of Dano, Burkina Faso, West Africa. Their cultural wisdom and generosity of spirit is the foundation on which we stand.
We donate 10% of all the proceeds from our grief rituals to the Dagara people through The Sonder Project. Our intention is to build a bridge of reciprocity with Malidoma and Sobonfu’s communities for the tremendous gifts they brought to the West. The project's goals are to empower communities and create a sustainable base for the Dagara culture to thrive. If you are curious and are called to support please visit here: Dagara Cultural and Water Projects

Sobonfu Somé
Renowned teacher and mentor Sobonfu Somé was one of the foremost voices of African spirituality to come to the West. Mentored by her Dagara elders, she brought ancient indigenous African wisdom to our Western culture in a compassionate, loving, and joyful way.
Since the beginning of her journey in the West Sobonfu has traveled extensively throughout North America and Europe, conducting workshops on spirituality, ritual, grief, the sacred and intimacy. Her work has moved African spiritual practices from the realm of anthropology, to a place alongside the world’s great spiritual tradition, with a message of profound significance and practical application in the lives of Westerners.
She was in Africa when she passed January 2017. She is now an ancestor.

Malidoma Somé
Malidoma Patrice Somé Phd., West African Elder, author and teacher, as representative of his village in Burkina Faso, West Africa, came to the west to share the ancient wisdom and practices which have supported his people for thousands of years.
For more than thirty years, Elder Malidoma shared the Wisdom of his Ancestors and tribal Elders: the Dagara Cosmology, and awakened a deep knowing in the hearts and bones of those who have recognized in his name, his books, his voice, and the Spirit world inviting the renewal of a deep and abiding relationship with all beings on Earth.
Elder Malidoma is the author of several books, including Ritual: Power, Healing and Community, Of Water and The Spirit: Ritual, Magic and Initiation in the Life of an African Shaman, and The Healing Wisdom of Africa: Finding Life Purpose through Nature, Ritual, and Community.
Dr. Somé held three Master’s degrees and two Doctorates from the Sorbonne and Brandeis University. He was an initiated elder in his village in Dano, Burkina Faso, W. Africa.
He traveled throughout the world bringing a message of hope, healing and reconciliation through the powerful tools of ritual and community building. Malidoma passed in December 2021. He is now an ancestor.
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Thérèse Charvet
Thérèse Charvet is the owner/director of Sacred Groves, a small intentional community and a place where ceremonies, circles and classes are offered. She has lived in the woods of Bainbridge Island Washington for nearly forty years, has been a nurse, a practicing midwife doing home and clinic births in Kitsap County, and was the Midwifery Program Director for 13 years at the Seattle Midwifery School.
She runs a Women’s Mysteries School, offering rituals and circles that empower and connect women with the “blood mysteries” of being a woman, the teachings of the grandmothers—inner and outer, ancient and modern.
Thérèse has been offering grief rituals at Sacred Groves since 2002, inspired and mentored by her experience with grief rituals offered by Sobonfu Some and Joanna Macy. This work has grown over the years, a team of co-facilitators, including Laurence Cole, has developed and many have been touched by the healing power of her grief ritual leadership.
A few years ago Thérèse, Laurence, and others began a grief tending mentoring program for the next generation of grief tending ritual leaders. She holds a place of mentor and elder in her community

Laurence Cole
Laurence Cole is a a song elder, ritualist, and community activist from Port Townsend, Washington who travels the world facilitating community healing and transformation through the power of song and ritual.
Laurence has a gift of helping groups of people rediscover the healing power of grieving communally, bringing his special gift of group singing to everything he leads . Guided and inspired by the teachings of Malidoma Somé, Sobonfu Somé, Angeles Arrien, Michael Meade, James Hillman, Francis Weller,, Joanna Macy and many others, Laurence creates a safe and brave, non-judgmental space for folks to rediscover their natural human capacity for healing together. Blending song, poetry, easy grounding movement, small and large group sharing, humor, silent reflective solitude in nature, and the co-creation of a beautiful ritual setting, Laurence provides a journey through the depths and heights of our aliveness, often leading to a sense of renewal, connection and even an awakened capacity for radiant joy.

Francis Weller
Francis Weller, MFT, is a psychotherapist, writer and soul activist. He is a master of synthesizing diverse streams of thought from psychology, anthropology, mythology, alchemy, indigenous cultures and poetic traditions. Author of the bestselling, The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief; The Threshold Between Loss and Revelation, (with Rashani Réa) and In the Absence of the Ordinary: Soul Work for Times of Uncertainty, he has introduced the healing work of ritual to thousands of people. He founded and directs WisdomBridge, an organization that offers educational programs that seek to integrate the wisdom from indigenous cultures with the insights and knowledge gathered from western poetic, psychological, and spiritual traditions.
For over forty years Francis has worked as a psychotherapist and developed a style he calls soul-centered psychotherapy. As a gifted therapist and teacher, he has been described as a jazz artist, improvising and moving fluidly in and out of deep emotional territories with groups and individuals, bringing imagination and attention to places often held with judgment and shame.
Francis is currently on staff at Commonweal Cancer Help Program, co-leading their week-long retreats with Michael Lerner.

Joanna Macy
Joanna is a scholar of Buddhism, General Systems Theory, and Deep Ecology; and her teaching incorporated all of these varying disciplines. She never taught anything that did not excite or move her.
Many thousands of people around the world have participated in Joanna’s workshops and trainings in the Work That Reconnects, and have been forever changed by this ground-breaking group work. A respected voice in the movements for peace, justice, and ecology, Joanna has devoted her life to five decades of activism.
Her wide-ranging work addresses psychological and spiritual issues of the nuclear age, the cultivation of ecological awareness, and the rich connections between Buddhist thought and contemporary science. She is also a translator of Rainer Maria Rilke, whose poems have long inspired her. The many dimensions of her work are explored in her books. World As Lover, World as Self is a wonderful starting point; it weaves together personal story, philosophical exploration and creative practice.
The Guides

Joshua Lowe
Joshua Lowe is a licensed therapist (LMFT#105893) public educator, musician, and nature-oriented rites of passage and grief ceremony guide. He brings 20+ years experience supporting others in transformational journeying and has supported teens and adults in various communities including high school, men’s groups, nature, prisons, and in the therapy office.
Joshua has been mentored in leading grief rituals by Therese Charvet and Laurence Cole who are carriers of the grief ritual lineage taught by Sobonfu Some and Malidoma Some.
Joshua brings a deep reverence for the healing power of grief and is humbled by the opportunity to support others in deepening their relationship to self and community through honoring and expressing grief and joy.

Terry Wilson
Terry Wilson is a father, grandfather, small business owner and master facilitator of transformational healing. Terry brings over 25 years of experience supporting various communities in healing work. He has held leadership roles in numerous non-profit organizations, including The ManKind Project and supporting incarcerated men through the Inside Circle Foundation in Folsom Prison. Currently, Terry is the board chairman for The Center for Violence Free Relationships in Placerville, CA and facilitates weekly men’s and women’s batterers intervention programs called Positive Solutions at the center, which he co-created.
When speaking on the healing process, Terry says, "It all comes down to grief." Terry is honored to offer his heart and wisdom for the grief rituals and retreat.

Laurence Cole
Laurence Cole, a song elder and ritualist from Port Townsend, Washington, has a gift of helping groups of people rediscover the healing power of grieving communally, bringing his special gift of group singing to everything he leads . Guided and inspired by the teachings of Malidoma Somé, Sobonfu Somé, Angeles Arrien, Michael Meade, James Hillman, Francis Weller,, Joanna Macy and many others, Laurence creates a safe and brave, non-judgmental space for folks to rediscover their natural human capacity for healing together. Blending song, poetry, easy grounding movement, small and large group sharing, humor, silent reflective solitude in nature, and the co-creation of a beautiful ritual setting, Laurence provides a journey through the depths and heights of our aliveness, often leading to a sense of renewal, connection and even an awakened capacity for radiant joy.

Sherri Taylor
Apprentice to Spirit, Sherri Taylor is deeply and passionately interested in the “being” of being human. She brings over 15 years of holding space for those moving through life transitions of all kinds. Sherri has been mentored in holding space for death, dying, and grief rituals by generous and amazing humans and otherkin. She is grateful for the teachings of Thérèse Charvet and Laurence Cole, who are carriers of the grief rituals taught by Sobonfu Somé and Malidoma Somé

Marilyn Hunt
Marilyn Hunt is a licensed therapist (#50088) and certified IFS therapist who believes that grieving in community is foundational for healthy living. Having lost her brother to suicide at 14, her father to cancer at 24 and mother to a stoke at 32, she found few people who knew how to walk alongside her when the world turned upside down. Her grief invited her into a transformational growth process over 25 years ago which led her to become a therapist so she could accompany others during their dark nights of the soul.
While reading Francis Weiler’s the Wild Edge of Sorrow she immediately felt the need to find a grief ritual. Finding ritual so powerful, she sought mentoring from Francis Weiler, Therese Charvet and Laurence Cole so that she could help facilitate these healing spaces with others. She feels honored to go to the depths of the human experience alongside people and celebrate the joys that come with meeting ourselves and one another authentically.
www.marilynhuntlmft.com

Joy Sprague
Joy Sprague has been holding safe spaces for people to access and process their grief for over fifteen years. As an end-of-life compassionate companion, she walks the threshold with others to bear witness to their own sacred grief journey. Her inclusive presence invites others into sacred grief ritual work to help cultivate grief and joy for a deeper connection and belonging.
She is honored to have trained in grief ritual facilitation with her mentors Theresé Charvet, Tere Caranza, and Laurence Cole. Her work is inspired by Malidoma and Sobonfu Somé, Francis Weller, Brother David Steindl-Rast, Martín Prechtel, and many more.
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August Materazzi
August Materazzi has been involved in men's work since 2005, and has assisted many grief rituals in the Santa Cruz area, where he currently lives. August enjoys playing music, acting in Santa Cruz' thriving theater scene, frequent nature excursions, and exploring expanded consciousness. August is looking forward to welcoming your presence and offerings to the grief and gratitude community.
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Eric Young
For nearly 20-years Eric Young has embodied a service oriented life. He loves co-creating events intertwining music, art, technology, and spirituality. Eric feels humbled to learn from Joshua Lowe and his mentors in tending Grief Rituals. Eric's life mission is to rekindle the prevalence of community rituals and other types of conscious gatherings in 21st century society. His intention is to offer compassionate care and authentic courage while stewarding the land and spiritual space. Eric looks forward to meeting you and sharing time together.

Aimee Barrett
Aimee Barrett is someone who deeply values grief work and understands the transformative power of community. Her own journey with community grief rituals began as a way to process the loss of a loved one to suicide during her early childhood. These experiences were compounded by the grief and despair of growing up in a religious community that opposed LGBTQIA identities, creating profound challenges to self-discovery and personal acceptance. These layered experiences taught her how crucial it is to create spaces where individuals can openly share their emotions, find validation, and foster healing through connection. Over the past eight years, she has had the privilege of working as a space holder in various forms, including as a Doula, in psychedelic integration, and now as a therapist trainee. These roles have reinforced her belief that shared spaces are essential for growth and healing, whether in grief or celebration